Common Triggers of Aggression
Domestic abuse can be difficult to predict, and people can often become violent for what seems like very little reason. However, there are some common triggers of aggression, such as:
- Drinking too much
- Drug use
- Financial hardship
- Problems at work
- Being challenged about drinking
- Frustration
- Being unable to access alcohol
- Feeling “questioned”
- Jealousy
If you are in a relationship with a drinker who becomes aggressive, it is important to understand that it’s not your fault. It can feel like you’re walking on eggshells and that the slightest thing can trigger an argument, but you are not responsible for your partner’s behaviour. If you feel unsafe, seek advice from an organisation such as Scottish Women’s Aid, Abused Men in Scotland or Scotland’s Domestic Abuse and Forced Marriage Helpline.
